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Why do you still want more?

 

 

You chose not to have kids so you poured yourself into your career instead.

 

The salary and the promotions and the lifestyle was supposed to be enough?!

 

But you hate what you do.

 

And you can’t stop asking yourself...if it’s not kids or my career… then what is the 'more' I'm looking for?!

​Hi, I'm Lindsey...

 

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I spent years doing everything 'right'. Impressive career, great salary, lots of travel and home was an amazing apartment in Singapore. But I still felt like something was off. And I was tired of trying to fit myself into a life that didn't. Quite. Fit. 

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There were nights I caught myself thinking, “Maybe I do want kids?” And not because I actually did but because not wanting them made my life feel like it wasn’t enough on its own.

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Eventually, I got brave enough to walk away from a job I hated. From a life that looked perfect on paper to take a chance on one that made me feel more alive and free. To find a version of childfree 'success' that actually meant something to me.

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And that’s what I want to help you do too. As someone who’s walked the very same road. I’m a qualified life coach but more importantly... I get it.


I know how scary it is to step off the path everyone else is walking. To doubt your childfree choices and to leave a job that feels safer than going after what your heart wants. But I also know how powerful it is to rewrite the rules and build a life that feels bigger and more alive.

 

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Kids aren’t it. This job isn’t it. So what is?

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  • You’ve ticked every box. Great education, solid job, promotions and a fancy title. On paper you 'should' feel successful but instead it feels like a cage.

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  • You’re proud of what you’ve achieved, but after working so hard to get here, you can’t escape the question: “Is this really it?”

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  • You don’t want kids, and you’ve made peace with that choice (mostly!) but sometimes you wonder if at least that path would’ve given you a clearer purpose.

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  • You wake up heavy with dread most mornings but you keep telling yourself to just “push through” because this is what adult life is.

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  • You scroll LinkedIn looking at jobs you don’t even want. You keep thinking the next promotion or holiday will fix it, but it never does. So your life feels like weekends and brief escapes from a role you wish you didn't have to go back to.

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  • You’re tired of kidding yourself that your life 'should' feel fulfilling when it doesn’t.

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  • You feel broken for not wanting the “traditional” milestones but for also hating the career that was supposed to be enough.

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  • You look around and everyone else seems settled, either with their kids or their career ...while you still feel like the odd one out.

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  • You know this job isn’t it… but the salary, security, and status feel impossible to walk away from. Plus...you don’t know what you actually want to do so you stay stuck! Overthinking your next step and keep living in the uncertainty of it all.​

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Success isn’t a job title.
Success is a life that feels like yours.

I help childfree women escape jobs that make them miserable, release the guilt of not wanting what everyone else seems to want, and finally create a big, meaningful life that’s theirs.

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Because no, your career isn’t your whole identity or your worth. But it does shape your everyday reality. And when every day feels heavy, exhausting, or pointless...it eats away at your happiness.

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That’s why my work isn’t just about helping you find a new job, it’s about building a life that feels exciting, aligned, and unapologetically yours, beyond kids and beyond the job title.

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Here’s what it could be instead...

  • Waking up with energy and excitement instead of dread  because your days actually feel like yours again.

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  • Feeling confident and unapologetic in being childfree by choice, no more nagging “maybe kids would’ve given me more purpose” spiral.

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  • You're no longer chained to a 'bullshit' job you hate just because it looks good, feels safe and it's all you've ever known. Clarity on what actually lights you up so you’re no longer stuck in the ‘I don’t even know what I want to do’ spiral.

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  • Knowing your worth isn’t tied to what you do for work , it's just something that supports and sustains the life you want.

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  • Having clarity on what truly matters to you, what  makes you happiest and a plan to start moving toward it (without blowing your whole life up overnight!).

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  • No longer stuck in overthinking, but you're finally taking real steps forward towards a life that's yours and not what you think's expected of you.

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  • Living a fuller life that actually excites you, not just surviving weekdays and living for weekends and holidays.​

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  •  You trust yourself and what you want without guilt or worrying if you might be 'wrong'.

What you've (probably!) tried so far...

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  • Switching jobs ( I'm guessing within the same industry?!) and always hoping the next one would finally feel right… but the same frustrations always follow you. 

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  • Chasing promotions or pay rises and thinking more money or a fancier title would feel better but it only made the cage shinier and harder to escape from.

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  • Moving abroad or booking the big “soul-searching” trip but when you got back, nothing inside really changed.

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  • Trying to be grateful and telling yourself “I should be happy with what I’ve got” while quietly aching for something more.

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  • Looking for a relationship and hoping the right partner would make work feel more bearable, or at least give life more direction but… even if you’ve found someone in today’s dating shitshow you’ve realised that doesn’t solve the ache either.

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  • Scrolling job boards and social media and imagining other lives that might be “more you" but...never taking action because you don’t know where to start in making that kind of reality come true. (Plus selling digital products or opening up a TikTok shop sounds even worse than what you're already doing!)

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You don’t want to blow your life up. ​You just don't want kids or a job that makes you want to stick forks into your eyes!​

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What You’ll Get: A Bespoke Coaching Experience 

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This isn’t a plug-and-play programme or a one-size-fits-all blueprint. You are unique so this coaching is too.

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Over 3 months we’ll untangle what’s keeping you trapped in the golden handcuffs, the overthinking and any doubt around being childfree by choice. Then together, we’ll start building a life that feels more meaningful for you and figure out a job or career that fills you up instead of drains you.

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  • Six 60-minute private coaching sessions (via Zoom, biweekly)

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  • Telegram voice note/text support between calls for those moments you need extra support or insight.

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  • Personalised tools, journaling prompts, and resources based on your needs, not generic advice.

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  • A safe space to explore what you truly want without judgment, shame, or pressure.

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£1499 for 3 Months

(Payment plan available)​

 

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What to Expect from Our Time Together

 

Over 3 months, we’ll start by looking at what’s not working at work and what you’re longing for. Together, we’ll uncover the stories and beliefs keeping you stuck in a role you don't like. From there, we’ll explore what a meaningful, fulfilling (childfree!) life looks like for you and not the one everyone else is chasing. Then a plan of small, doable steps to move forward with clarity and confidence without blowing everything up overnight.​

 

What you’ll walk away with:

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You’ll stop feeling like the odd one out for not wanting kids and start trusting that your happiness just looks different. Instead of waiting for a lightning bolt of certainty, you’ll have clarity and confidence to follow the breadcrumbs toward a life and career that actually fit. Most of all, you’ll know you’re not broken for wanting more — and you’ll have permission to build a life that feels meaningful, exciting, and worth waking up for.

Clarity comes from action, not from waiting until you have a 10-year plan. And I’m here to help you take that first step.

 

Stop settling for a life that 'looks' impressive but makes you want to scream into your pillow every Monday moring.

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