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You did everything right... so why does your life FEEL wrong?
You never wanted kids so you poured everything into your career instead.
The salary, the status, the lifestyle. It was all supposed to make you happy and give you freedom.
But now you’re standing inside the life you were told to build and realising it doesn't feel like it should.
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You’re starting to see the cracks in the system you were conditioned to follow but... you don't know how to live outside of it either.
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So now you’re here. Awake enough to know you can’t stay but unsure how to move forward.
And the question that won't leave you alone is...
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.. if it’s not motherhood and it’s not THIS… then what is the life I’m actually meant for?
YOU HATE YOUR JOB BUT...
… you don’t know what to do instead! Join my FREE training that shows you what to do when you’ve outgrown the "successful" life you're scared to walk away from.
Kids aren’t it. This job isn’t it. So what is?
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You’ve ticked every box. Good education, solid career, promotions, great bonuses and an impressive title. On paper you should feel successful but it's not enough.
You’re proud of what you’ve built, but after working so hard to get here, you can’t escape the quiet question: “Is this really it?”
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You don’t want kids and you’ve made peace with that (mostly!) but sometimes you wonder if at least that path would’ve given you a clearer sense of purpose.
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You wake up with dread most mornings because your job is bullsh*t! and doesn't really mean anything or make a difference in the world. In fact, you feel like you're part of a system that's only making things worse! But you keep telling yourself to “push through” because this is what adult life is supposed to look like. And with the threat of AI looming over most people's shoulders... shouldn't you just be more grateful to even have a job?!
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You scroll LinkedIn searching for a role you don’t even really want and in a job market you know 100s of others have already applied for.
You tell yourself the next promotion, holiday, or weekend will fix it — but it never does. So life becomes a cycle of waiting for relief from a job you wish you didn’t have to return to.
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You’re tired of pretending your life “should” feel enough when it doesn’t. You feel broken for not wanting the traditional milestones and still hating the career that was meant to replace them.
Everyone around you seems settled with their kids or their career but you’re left feeling like the odd one out.
You know this job isn’t it. But the salary, security, and status feel impossible to walk away from. And because you don’t know what you actually want next, you stay stuck. Overthinking, waiting, holding your breath inside a life you’re ready to move on from but you have no idea in what direction.
The real problem isn't your job...
If it were, you’d have fixed it by now. Switched companies, found a new role, taken a sabbatical, retrained, tried harder, pushed through... but no matter what changes around you (and I know you've tried them all already!) the feeling inside you stays the same.
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“I feel like there's something more for me."
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Because the problem was never just the job. The problem is the life model you were told to build your identity around - stability, achievement, productivity, and approval.​
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It was never about meaning, freedom, authenticity or truth.
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So of course it feels wrong. Not because you’re ungrateful. Not because you’re broken. Not because you’re lost.
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But because you’ve outgrown the life you were taught to want. And you're not meant to “fix” this feeling or ignore it. You’re meant to FOLLOW it! ​
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You’re not broken
You’re in the space between who you were told to be and who you’re finally allowed to become.
There comes a point where the life that once made sense just doesn’t anymore. Not because you failed but because you’ve outgrown the version of yourself that built it.
This isn’t a breakdown. It’s clarity trying to form. The inbetween phase where the new path hasn’t fully revealed itself yet.
It’s uncomfortable. It makes you question everything. Yes - it feels terrifying!
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But it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re listening. It means something in you is waking up. It means you’re ready for a life that actually fits who you always have been. Who you were and what you need and wanted BEFORE the conditioning told you to want it.
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And you don’t have to figure that out on your own.
​Hi, I'm Lindsey...
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...and I didn’t leave motherhood off the table just to spend my life trapped in a career that was draining my soul!
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​I spent YEARS doing everything 'right'. Impressive career, great salary, lots of travel and home was an amazing apartment in Singapore.​The holidays, the lifestyle, the version of success everyone said I should want.
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And yet — I’d wake up with that quiet dread in my chest, thinking “Is this really what I’m supposed to do for the next 30 years?”
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I even caught myself wondering if maybe I should just have kids. Not because I wanted them, but because I was desperate for something to make my life feel more meaningful. That’s when I knew something was deeply off.
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So I walked away.
Not in a glamorous, movie-style leap but in a messy, terrifying, “I can’t stay here anymore” kind of way. I left the salary, the identity, the version of me people clapped for… and moved back in with my parents so I could create something that meant more to me.
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So no, leaving didn’t feel empowering at first. It felt like failure because the world only celebrates women who follow the script and not the ones who burn it.
But that was the beginning of everything.
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Because when the old identity falls away, you finally get to ask the real questions: What do I actually want? What FEELS like success to me?
What do I want my one life to be for if it's not this?
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That’s the work I do now.
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I help women who are standing in that same doorway. Women who have outgrown the “successful” life they’re in, but don’t know what comes next.
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Not to climb higher inside the same system. Not to tolerate another decade of “it’s fine, I should be grateful.” But to build a life that feels free, meaningful, aligned and finally theirs.
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If you’ve reached the point where you can’t stay where you are but don’t yet know how to leave… you’re exactly where I've been.
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And you don’t have to figure the next part out alone and I know how to make it feel 100x less scary and messier than it was for me!
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This is for the woman who…
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Has spent her whole life being “the capable one,” the achiever, the high-functioning (eldest?!) daughter and is now realising she built a life she doesn’t actually want to live in.
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Opens job boards, coaching pages, visa websites, and creative courses on repeat! Not because she knows what she wants next, but because staying where she is feels impossible.
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Has googled things like:
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“What to do when your job is slowly killing your soul”
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“How to change your life when you don’t know what you want”
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“What if I don’t want kids OR my career?”
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Has tried fixing the problem with: therapy, journaling, holidays, promotions, new managers, gratitude, LinkedIn stalking, career quizzes — and nothing has actually changed how she feels!
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Looks around at her friends having babies and mortgages and thinks “I’m not jealous… but I still feel behind.”
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Feels too ambitious for the motherhood path, too rebellious for the corporate one, and too awake to pretend either option fits.
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Finds herself thinking: “I know what I don’t want… but I have no idea what I DO want.”
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Has wondered if the only way to feel “free” is to start an online business, join a network marketing scheme, or churn out some damn digital products because that’s what half of Instagram seems to be doing!
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Is tired of people saying, “You’re so lucky,” when her inner world is quietly falling apart.
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She's tired of feeling like the most awake and self-aware person in the room but still not knowing what to do next
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Feels guilty and a bit broken for wanting a life that looks nothing like the one everyone else seems content with.
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Has stopped telling the truth about how unhappy she is because she doesn’t want to sound ungrateful (or crazy!)
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Keeps waiting for some breakthrough of clarity about what she wants next but mostly feeling stuck in the in-between.
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Knows she can’t keep living like this but has no map for what comes after the “golden handcuffs” come off.
If that’s you — then you’re not lost. You’re just done pretending the life you built is enough. And you’re exactly the woman this work was built for.
I don’t help women find a better job so they can tolerate the same life in a different office.
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I help childfree women break out of the version of success they were conditioned to chase and build a life that actually feels meaningful, self-led, and free.
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Inside my work, we don’t just change what you do. We change what you believe success, purpose, identity and freedom get to mean — on YOUR terms!
You don’t need another mindset hack, a pros & cons list or a RANDOM leap you hope doesn’t blow up your life!
You need a space where you can finally tell the truth, explore what you actually want (without guilt!) and then start to build a life that fits who you truly are (outside of the matrix!)
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That’s what 1:1 coaching with me is for. This isn’t career coaching. This is the deep, honest, life-redesign work most women never give themselves permission to do. Together, we bridge the gap between the life you’ve outgrown and the one you haven’t built yet - with clarity, support, structure, accountability, and actual forward motion.
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If you’re done circling the same thoughts and ready to finally do something about it, here’s what working together looks like.
'THE OTHER WAY' METHOD
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The 4-phase journey we move through inside my 1:1 coaching
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PHASE 1 — Wake Up to What’s Not Working - We get honest about the gap between the life you’re living and the life you actually want. You’ll finally be able to see why you're stuck and what’s really driving the dissatisfaction (it’s not just your job or sh*tt* manager!)
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PHASE 2 — Unlock Yourself From The Programming That’s Keeping You Trapped - This is where we dismantle the stories around success, identity, productivity, failure, and what a woman’s life is "supposed" to look like. You’ll stop feeling guilty for wanting more and something that looks different. You'll learn how to start TRUSTING the voice that’s been silenced under all the conditioning.
PHASE 3 — Rebuild Your Definition of Freedom, Success + Meaning. Once the noise clears, then we do the deeper clarity work: What do you actually want? What does your version of a meaningful, childfree life look like? What are the values, desires, and priorities that get to lead from now on?
PHASE 4 — Move Into Action (Without Burning Your Life Down Overnight!) Small, honest, momentum-building steps. No quitting everything in week one, no chaotic leap-of-faith energy. We build a path that feels aligned AND achievable!
Who You’ll Be on the Other Side of This Work
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You’ll stop waking up with that heavy feeling of “I don’t know what I’m doing with my life” and start waking up with clarity, direction, and a future you actually feel excited about.
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You’ll stop outsourcing your happiness to the next promotion, holiday, relationship or life milestone and start realisng it's the smaller, most accesssible things that make you genuinely happy and content.
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You’ll leave this work with a clear next step AND the confidence to follow it.
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The ability to adjust your direction when your desires evolve and WITHOUT falling apart and accepting nothing is “wrong with you” for wanting more.
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You won’t just have clarity about what’s next. You’ll finally trust yourself to choose what’s next — and KEEP choosing a life that feels like you.
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You stop asking “Is this the right choice?” and start asking “Is this the right choice for me?” and that's when life finally becomes yours again.
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Because the goal was never to find the "one" right thing. The goal was to finally feel like the woman who knows what she wants, knows how to go after it, and knows she’ll be okay even when the path changes. That’s the freedom you’ve been looking for — even if you thought it would come from a different job.
How it works​
This isn’t a plug-and-play programme or a one-size-fits-all blueprint. You are unique so this coaching is too.
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This is a 3-month 1:1 coaching container designed to take you from stuck, confused, and quietly miserable… to clear, confident, and actually moving toward a life that feels like yours (and not the one you were told to settle for!)
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90-min Deep Dive Kickoff - We map out what’s not working, what you actually want, and what needs to change.
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5 x 60-min 1:1 Coaching Sessions - Real clarity, real decisions, real momentum. Not “just talking about it,” but actually changing it.
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Unlimited Voice + Text Support Between Calls (via Telegram!) - Because the doubts and breakthroughs don’t happen on a schedule and you’re not doing this alone anymore.
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Personalised tools, prompts and resources - Not generic worksheets. Actual support to help you define success on your own terms.
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- A clear roadmap by the end of our time together - No more “I’ll figure it out eventually.” You’ll leave with clarity, a plan, and the confidence to keep going — without needing someone to hold your hand forever.​
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£1599 for 3 Months
(Payment plan available)​
​​*You’ve already paid more than this in holidays, takeaways, self-help books, burnout recovery, “escape weekends”... and nothing changed. This will!​
Nothing changes if nothing changes.
If you’re done thinking about it, journaling about it, talking about it, and waiting for the “right time” — this is your sign to take the first real step. Book a free clarity call. No pressure. No awkward pitch. Just a real conversation about where you are, what you want next, and whether this coaching is the right fit to get you there.
She’s Done Performing Success. She’s Ready to Live It
There’s a version of you who already knows the truth: you didn’t work this hard just to spend your one life sitting in meetings, proving your worth to people you don’t respect, and calling it “success.”
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She’s done pretending the system works. She’s done trying to make herself fit inside rules she never agreed to.
She wants more — not more status, not more gold stars — more aliveness. More freedom. More meaning. And yes, more money… but earned in a way that actually feels good and to stop trading her entire life for it.
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You’re not scared of failing. You’re scared of waking up in 5 years still living the exact same day you’re living now.
The version of you who’s done performing success, who’s free from needing permission, who lives on her own terms — she already exists
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If you can feel her — even faintly — that’s not a coincidence. That’s the call. And you’re the only one who can decide to answer it.